What Should I Do When My Child Says Their Piano Piece Is Too Hard?
“My piece is too hard” can mean several things. Your child might be struggling with one small section, feeling unsure where to begin, or expecting to play the whole piece confidently straight away.
You don’t need to know the notes to help. Start by finding out what feels difficult, then help your child take one manageable step.
Ask which part feels hard
A whole piece can feel overwhelming when the difficulty is really in just a few bars. Rather than asking your child to play it from the beginning again, ask, “Is there one part that’s bothering you?”
They might point to a line in the music, mention a rhythm or say they can’t remember what their tutor showed them. Any of those answers gives you a clearer starting point.
Try this: Ask your child to show you the part they mean. You can acknowledge that it feels tricky without trying to correct it.
Check the lesson notes together
Your child’s tutor may already have suggested how to work on that section. The goal might be to practise one hand at a time, play slowly or watch a video from the lesson.
Try this: Look for one instruction your child can follow today. If neither of you is sure what the tutor meant, move on to the video step below.
Make the goal smaller
Your child doesn’t need to master the difficult part in one practice session. Working on a short section for a few minutes is worthwhile, even if it still sounds unfinished afterwards.
You could ask, “Would you like to try just the first little bit?” Give them room to stop after that. Finishing a small goal can help them feel ready to return another day.
Try this: Agree on one short task before they sit down at the piano, such as trying the same two bars slowly three times.
Send their tutor a short video on WhatsApp
If your child is happy to show the difficult section, film a short clip and send it to their tutor on WhatsApp. It doesn’t need to be a polished performance. Seeing where your child gets stuck helps the tutor give specific guidance before the next lesson.
You could write:
“They’re finding this section difficult at home. Here’s a short video so you can see where they get stuck. What would you suggest they focus on this week?”
If your child doesn’t want to be filmed, you can still send a photo of the section in the music and explain what they’re finding difficult.
Finding something hard is a normal part of learning piano. Your role isn’t to provide the musical answer. Helping your child describe the problem and share it with their tutor can make the next step feel much clearer.
If you have any questions we’re always happy to help you make it work. If you have any questions please feel free to reach out!



